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UNANTICIPATED ANTICIPATION

THIS WAS THE TIME IN MY EARLY 20’S
ANTICIPATING TO ACHIEVE THE BOLD SUCCESS
EXTREME THROUGH MY EYES AND HEART I USED TO LOVE SOMEONE
BUT I NEVER THOUGHT THAT I WOULD BE DECIEVED LIKE THAT ONE

SOPHISTICATED WAS MY LIFE SEEKING FOR PEACE AND HONOR
EVERYTIME I TRIED TO ABDICATE THIS HYPNOTISED OFFER
I RATHER TRIED HARD SO MANY TIMES BUT I NEVER SUCCEED
WORTHLESS WAS MY LIFE THAN I EVER ASPIRED

WHEN I MET HER THAT I WAS MY FIRST TIME
OFTEN SAID FIRST TIME THE FRUSTRATING TIME
I FELT AS IF IT WAS FOR ONLY OTHERS BUT IT WAS ALSO FOR MINE
I STARE MYSELF AT THE WINDOW SOMETIME

SEEMS ERRONEOUS THAT I WAS DEPICTING MY PORTRAIT
NEVERTHELESS THAT WAS THE GREATEST REGRET
FEELING REGRET AND GUILT TOWARDS THE PAST DAYS
DOESN’T MATTER IT WON’T LET ME AGAIN

STILL I THINK I COULD ACHIEVE MORE
BUT HOW COULD I? AS I USED TO PUFF CIGARATTES AND WEEDS MORE
CONTARY AND PARADOX THAT BEST RE-DEFINES MY STATUS
SOMETIMES OFTEN LEAVES A CHOICE TO BECOME GARRULOUS

AGGRAVATED WITH A DESIRE TO MAKE SOMETHING IMPOSSIBLE
NO WONDER IT WAS NOT SO PRUDENT TO HANDLE
I WOULD LIKE TO ADMIT THAT I COULD EVEN ENDURE MORE
CAN VERDICT MY OWN LIFE BEYOND MENTOR

The Ultimate Bond Between Teacher and Students

Evaluation of the teachers is what determines the student accomplishments. The aspirations of the student can be explored only if they can verdict the qualities of their mentor. Good students always tend to evaluate the teachers to conceal their own future. What is worth more important evaluation of the mentor/studying into the best universities? Certainly my answer would be more compatible with the first option a wise evaluation.

Studying in the best universities doesn’t count at all what counts is the prudent evaluation of the mentor. What is proportional about the evaluation is what student wants to study too. We should always try to find out the possible drawbacks of our teacher because it is probably the best way of enduring the knowledge. The best evaluation reveals the student capability to exaggerate the course which might enables them to be best in every aspect. A best way of knowing the character of a teacher is what seems to be more plausible. If not knowing the properties of teacher might create halt for the students in achieving their destiny.

The situation would be rather bizarre and complicated if the student fails to inspect the characters of teacher and it might create several afflictions. It might be so serious enough that they can create barrier for students to handle the situation. Even the single issue might create the seemingly implausible situation. Being innocent about the characters of the teachers might be so serious for the students to tackle with the mere challenges that are obvious to occult. Having an idea about how to understand the psychology of the mentor would probably help us to succeed.

Furthermore every student need to inspect the character of the teachers and as the reliable evaluation leads the students to succeed and makes the student to be more ambitious. So it would be rather better to take reliable decision than that of the gaining the knowledge from the best universities.

Nepal’s Statement in the High Level Segment of COP 17

“There is a need for a stronger political commitment beyond narrow short term interest, we should not let our people down”, Hon. Environment Minister Hemraj Tater, Government of Nepal stressed in his statement in high level segment of the UN climate change conference (COP 17/CMP 7) in Durban, South Africa on December 7, 2011.

In his statement, Minister Tater expressed his solidarity to the statements made by the Argentina on behalf of G77 & China and Gambia on behalf of the LDCs. He highlighted the principle of equity, justice and global solidarity for the survival and well beings of the most vulnerable people. The major agendas that Nepal laid emphasis on the high level segments are

  1. Implementation of the outcomes from Bali and Cancun climate conference
  2. Substantial progress on Adaptation, Mitigation, Finance, Technology transfer and development and capacity build-up
  3. Second commitment period of the Kyoto Protocol to limit the global temperature rise below 1.5° C
  4. Operationalisation of the  Cancun Adaptation Framework, Technology Mechanism and Green Climate Fund with due priority to LDCs under the authority and guidance of COP
  5. Replenishment of the LDCF and other climate change funds with easy and fast access to NAPA implementation and preparation and implementation of NAPs
  6. Consider REDD + and CDM as important instrument for sustainable development and poverty reduction
  7. Simplify and make specific rules and procedure on CDM to the LDCs

Hon. Minister stated that “despite our limited capabilities, we have recognized adaptation as a National Survival Strategy to protect our people, livelihood and ecosystems”. He committed to begun to develop the urgent and immediate adaptation actions within NAPA with 80 % of the budget channelled to the local level in keeping with the National Framework on Local Adaptation Programme of Action (LAPA). The minister also commits to promote the clean and renewable energy development path to reduce the green house gases emission.

He also reminds the initiation of the Mountain Initiative by Nepal in Copenhagen on 2009.  Issues of declining snow cover and retreating glacier in the mountain and vulnerability of the poor people residing in mountainous areas was given major emphasis in the statement. To highlight the agenda of mountain and develop the cooperation among the mountainous country, the Government of Nepal also organized a side event in COP 17 on December 5 with representation from many countries.

In his concluding remarks, the minister urged that “there must be shift from the pledge-based approach to a result based approach”.

 

–          By Dipesh Chapagain, Durban, South Africa

UN Announces SEED Award Winners, First Gender Equality Award Winner 2011

Nairobi—From a company that transforms groundnut shells into fuel briquettes in Gambia, to an enterprise that has developed solar ovens in Burkino Faso, to an initiative that trains and employs street youth to collect waste materials in Ghana, which they then transform into handmade designer products, to a business in Kenya where women produce aloe-based skin care products, these are just some the 35 winners of the 2011 SEED Awards, theUnited Nations Environment Programme (UNEP) announced today.

2011 SEED Winner Solid Waste ManagementThe community mobilization programme in Nepal (featured). The programme, which is run by a women’s environment committee and supported by a local municipality, is a waste collection and recycling initiative of over 1,000 households and businesses. (Photo: SEED Initiative)

And this year — in addition to the general SEED Awards and as part of SEED’s partnership with UN Women — a special Gender Equality Award was given to the “Solid Waste Management and Community Mobilization Program” in Nepal. The programme is a waste collection and recycling initiative of over 1,000 households and businesses and is run by a women’s environment preservation committee and supported by a local municipality. Under the initiative, landfill waste is reduced via recycling and biogas plants are fueled by organic waste on which training is provided. A savings and credit cooperative has also been established to mobilize loans to 150 female members.

This Gender Equality Award is part of an initiative that will not only fulfill the general criteria of the Awards but in addition is women-led, or owned, and prioritizes gender equality or women’s empowerment as a core objective.

UN Women Executive Director Michelle Bachelet said: “UN Women is proud to join other UN partners and sponsor the first-ever SEED Gender Equality Award to lend a helping hand to women who drive sustainable development and the Green Economy. As we face rising disparities, mounting protests, faltering economies, and a changing climate, we must unleash the potential of women to contribute to the solutions our common humanity has to find. Sustainable development depends on economic and social equity, wise management of the environment and demands gender equality. UN Women supports women’s full and equal participation in decision-making and most especially at next year’s Rio+20 Conference on sustainable development.”

As last year, in addition to seeking innovative start-ups throughout the developing world, the 2011 SEED Awards have a special focus on Africa, placing particular emphasis on initiatives from Burkina Faso, Cameron, Egypt, Gambia, Ghana, Kenya, Madagascar, Nigeria, Rwanda, Senegal, South Africa, Tanzania, Uganda and Zimbabwe. This focus is part of a larger project linked with UNEP’s Green Economy Initiative, which is funded largely by the European Union’s Green Economy and Social and Environmental Entrepreneurship in Africa.

The annual international SEED Awards, which is part of the SEED Initiative, recognise inspiring social and environmental entrepreneurs whose grassroots businesses in developing countries can help to meet sustainable development challenges.

The SEED Initiative — hosted at the UN Environment Programme’s World Conservation Monitoring Centre (UNEP-WCMC) — is a global partnership for action on the Green Economy. By helping entrepreneurs to scale-up their activities, the SEED Initiative aims to boost local economies, tackle poverty and improve livelihoods, while promoting the sustainable use of resources and ecosystems.

The Award winners will receive from SEED a package of individually-tailored support for their businesses, access to relevant expertise and technical assistance, and profiling at national and international level at conferences and through the SEED’s partners and associates.

All the SEED winners will be honoured at a high-level award ceremony in South Africa which will form part of the SEED Green Economy Symposium at the end of March 2012.

The 2011 call for proposals saw applications from 76 countries, representing the collaborative efforts of non-governmental organisations, women and youth groups, labour organisations, public authorities, international agencies and academia.

Most of the applications were in the agricultural and rural development sectors, as well as in energy and climate change, ecosystem management, and biodiversity. Many entries at the same time addressed micro-enterprise development, IT applications, and education and training.

The winners were selected by the independent SEED International Jury of experts.

The 2011 SEED Gender Equality Award Winner

Nepal

  • The “Solid Waste Management and Community Mobilization Program” is a waste collection and recycling initiative of over 1,000 households and businesses and is run by a women’s environment committee and supported by a local municipality. Under the initiative, landfill waste is reduced via recycling and biogas plants are fueled by organic waste on which training is provided. A savings and credit cooperative has also been established to mobilise loans to 150 female members.

Lets learn something from them: Robin Lim

Los Angeles (CNN) — Robin Lim, an American woman who has helped thousands of poor Indonesian women have a healthy pregnancy and birth, was named the 2011 CNN Hero of the Year on Sunday night.

Through her Yayasan Bumi Sehat health clinics, “Mother Robin,” or “Ibu Robin” as she is called by the locals, offers free prenatal care, birthing services and medical aid in Indonesia, where many families cannot afford care.

“Every baby’s first breath on Earth could be one of peace and love. Every mother should be healthy and strong. Every birth could be safe and loving. But our world is not there yet,” Lim said during “CNN Heroes: An All-Star Tribute,” which took place at the Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles and recognized Lim and the other top 10 CNN Heroes of 2011.

Many women in the developing world do not have access to contraception or maternal care. According to the United Nations Population Fund, three out of five women giving birth in South Asia do so without a skilled birth attendant on hand.

In Indonesia, the average family earns the equivalent of $8 a day, according to the International Monetary Fund. But a baby delivery costs about $70 at a hospital, and a Caesarian section can cost as much as $700.

Lim believes Indonesia’s high maternal and infant mortality rates are caused in part by these costs, which many women cannot meet.

“The situation is bad … babies are unattended, deliveries have become commercialized, and mothers die from hemorrhage after childbirth because they can’t afford proper care,” Lim told CNN earlier this year.

The CNN Hero of the Year was chosen by the public after an 11-week vote on CNN.com. For being named Hero of the Year, Lim will receive $250,000 for her cause. That’s in addition to the $50,000 that she and the rest of the top 10 Heroes each received for making the top 10.

This is the fifth year that CNN, with the help of entertainers and other celebrities, have honored everyday people changing the world. Among this year’s presenters were comedians Jerry Seinfeld and George Lopez; actors J.R. Martinez and Chris Colfer; musical artists Ice Cube and will.i.am; model Christy Turlington Burns; former NFL quarterback Kurt Warner; and actresses Laura Dern, Mary-Louise Parker and Sofia Vergara. (Photos: Scenes from the night)

Kid Rock performed the song “Care” from his platinum-selling album “Born Free,” while Miley Cyrus sang her triple-platinum hit “The Climb.”

Turlington Burns introduced Lim’s video tribute during Sunday’s show, before the Hero of the Year announcement. As founder ofEvery Mother Counts, she is also a passionate advocate for maternal health around the world.

“Eight years ago, after giving birth to my first child Grace, I felt what could have been a life-threatening complication,” she told the audience of nearly 5,000. “It suddenly got very scary, very fast. If I hadn’t received the expert care in the hospital birthing center I was in, then I may have not been so fortunate.

world has the same chance surviving childbirth I had. My friend Robin Lim shares that wish and she spends her days and nights making it so.”

Photos: See how Lim helps thousands of women

Turlington Burns recently made the trip to Indonesia to meet Lim and see her work firsthand.

Lim became a midwife after her sister — and her sister’s baby — died from complications during childbirth several years ago. She and her husband then sold their home in Hawaii and moved to Bali to “reinvent their lives,” she said.

“It was there she learned she could make a difference,” Turlington Burns said. “She opened a clinic, Bumi Sehat, so poor mothers can give birth safely and be treated with dignity and respect. She has delivered thousands of babies, and that is why they call her ‘Ibu’ — Mother.”

After being announced as the CNN Hero of the Year, a tearful Lim accepted the award from host Anderson Cooper and made an impassioned plea for help.

“Today on our Earth, 981 mothers in the prime of their life will die — and tomorrow again and yesterday,” she said. “And I’m asking you to help change that. We don’t even know how many babies are lost, but all of us can help change that.”

‘A dirty deal coming down in Durban’

By Basant

The biggest problem is obvious: COP17 saboteurs from the US State Department joined by Canada, Russia and Japan, want to bury the legally-binding Kyoto Protocol treaty. Instead of relaxing intellectual property rules on climate technology and providing a fair flow of finance, Washington offers only a non-binding ‘pledge and review’ system.

This is unenforceable and at current pledge rates – with Washington lagging everyone – is certain to raise world temperatures to four degrees centigrade, and in Africa much higher. Estimates of the resulting deaths of Africans this century are now in excess of 150 million. As former Bolivian Ambassadar to the UN, Pablo Solon said at last week’s Wolpe Memorial Lecture, “The COP17 will be remembered as a place of premeditated genocide and ecocide.”

Within the International Convention Centre, everyone in their right mind should resist this. First, it is patently obvious, after the 1997 Kyoto negotiations where Al Gore promised US support in exchange for carbon trading, and after Hillary Clinton’s 2009 promise of a $100 billion Green Climate Fund – both reneged upon – that Washington cannot be trusted. Lead negotiators Todd Stern and Jonathan Pershing should be isolated, an international climate court should be established, and preparations made for comprehensive sanctions against US goods and services.

Second, it appears that the European Union, South Africa and the Climate Action Network – the latter representing big international NGOs mostly without any commitment to climate justice – are pushing what is called a ‘new mandate’. And not surprisingly, Pretoria’s team and the biased pro-Northern chair, SA foreign minister Maite Nkoana-Mashabane, appear ready to sell out the African continent.

Some countries, led by Mali and Egypt, are holding firm on demands by the African Group, the Group of Least Developed Countries and the Latin American ‘Alba’ countries for binding northern emissions cuts of 50% by 2020 and 95% by 2050. These are critical targets to get the overall climate change to below 1.5 degrees. At 2 degrees, the UN estimates, ninety percent of current African agricultural output will cease.

If African countries fold in coming hours, even the traditional leaders of science-based demands – Bolivia, Tuvalu and a few others – probably cannot block a sleazy Durban deal.

Unfortunately, the SA and EU delegations are behind-the-scenes managers devoted to bringing emissions trading markets into this new mandate, largely because of the vast investment that Europeans have made in now-failing carbon markets. Jacob Zuma’s endorsement of the World Bank’s ‘Climate Smart Agriculture’ scheme last week is a return to nakedly neoliberal management of society and nature – an approach that over the last decade proved so disastrous in water privatization and carbon trading.

Explains Anne Maina of the African Biodiversity Network, “Climate Smart Agriculture comes packaged with carbon offsets. Soil carbon markets could open the door to offsets for genetically-modified crops and large-scale biochar land grabs, which would be a disaster for Africa. Africa is already suffering from a land grab epidemic – the race to control soils for carbon trading could only make this worse.”

Zuma is not well advised by is climate team, for the carbon markets upon which the strategy rests are dying. The Union Bank of Switzerland, Europe’s largest, last month estimated the price per tonne collapsing to just 3 euros in 2013, down from a peak of over 30 euros five years ago and around eight euros at present. If forest credits are also sold into the markets, as proponents hope, it will swamp supply and crash the European Union Emissions Trading Scheme to the level of Chicago’s: around zero.

By all accounts we need prices of at least 50 euros/tonne for market incentives to begin substantively switching us out of carbon and into renewable energy and public transport. Can we trust maniac bankers to deliver the planet’s salvation?

Face it, the neoliberal strategy is failing on its own terms. As a result, Trevor Manuel’s idea that half the Green Climate Fund should be drawn from carbon markets instead of stingy Northern governments and corporations is fatally flawed.

There is a tiny remaining hope for COP17, but only if we soon see a 1999 Seattle-style move by African delegates who know their constituents will be fried if the rich countries and SA have their way. Exactly twelve years ago, the African delegates refused to let the World Trade Organisation do a deal against Africa’s interests. SA’s trade minister at the time, Alec Erwin, tried but was unable to prevent this sensible obstructionist approach.

This time it will be harder, not only because Nkoana-Mashabane presides over COP17, but also because of Ethiopia’s tyrant ruler Meles Zenawi, a top African Union negotiator who ‘sold out’ the continent in 2009-10 by halving finance demands and endorsing the Copenhagen Accord, according to Mthika Mwenda of the Pan African Climate Justice Alliance.

Since the African Group represents 53 countries, the Group of Least Developed Countries represents 48, and there are a half-dozen more in the Alba block, it is not impossible that this shifting alliance can overcome the rich countries’ power and the tendency of the four leading middle-income countries – Brazil, China, India and SA – to represent their own national interests.

As German NGO activist Rebecca Sommer of Ecoterra sums up, “Developed nations are trying to shift their responsibilities for drastic emissions cuts onto developing countries that have done the least to cause the problem. Rich industrialized countries are busy trying to carve out new business opportunities for multinational corporations and their financial elites. It would be disastrous if the internationally binding emission reduction commitments would lapse or end altogether in Durban.”

Most likely, our city will go down in infamy as the site that the temperature was dialed up on Africa. Against that, a spirited march on Saturday passed the ICC but its impact was tempered by what climate justice activists called the ‘Green Bombers’ (named after Robert Mugabe’s paramilitaries).

Complained march organizer Des D’Sa of the South Durban Community Environmental Alliance, “About 300 protesters, dressed in official COP17 volunteer uniforms, tore up placards, physically threatened and attacked activists participating in the march. In spite of heavy police presence throughout the march, including mounted police, riot police, air-patrol and snipers, and requests to address this disruption, police did not take any action.”

The group had “green eThekwini tracksuits with city branding and emblems, but acknowledged themselves to be ANC Youth League supporters, displaying pro-Zuma and anti-Malema placards,” says D’Sa, with the message “100% COP17”. And that tells you all you need to know about the stakes and dirty politics in play here in central Durban.

Source: (Internet)

Himalayan Climate Change Impact Given “New Baseline” By New Reports

By Basant

Three new studies from the International Centre for Integrated Mountain Development detail the impact of climate change in the Himalayas and Hindu Kush mountain range.

IPCC head Dr Rajendra Pachauri says they “provide a new baseline…for understanding climate change in one of the most vulnerable ecosystem in the world.”

What the studies found:

Based on remote sensing studies, there are 54,000 glaciers in the region, covering some 60,000 square kilometers. Of these just ten have been regularly studied. Nevertheless the studies show that the rate of glacier loss has doubled between 1980 and 2000, and 1996 and 2005. In the Mount Everest region, glacier loss “showed a marked acceleration” between 2002 and 2005. Over the past 30 years, Nepal has lost 21% of its glacier cover, with Bhutan losing 22%. Glaciers in Tibet are retreating most quickly, as they have lower debris cover which slows the rate of melting.

In terms of snow cover, in the central Himalayan-Hindu Kush region there has been an overall decrease in snow cover, while eastern and western parts of the region have seen an increase.

As far as temperature rise is concerned, “The rise in temperature has been greater at higher altitudes and more pronounced during cooler months than in the warmer months. This imbalance narrows the seasonal variation in temperature, potentially favoring some plant species over other others and already having impacts on agriculture.”

Warming across the Himalaya-Hindu Kush region has been 0.74°C higher than the global average over the past 100 years, with warming on the Tibetan plateau being particularly pronounced, 1.35°C higher than the global average.

Source: (Internet http://www.treehugger.com/climate-change/himayalan-climate-change-impact-given-new-baseline-new-reports.html )

Sunflowers Bring Hope to Radiation Zone in Japan

By Basant

In March the Fukushima power plant saw one of the largest nuclear disasters of the past few decades. Ever since the meltdown teams have been working to clean up the mess and reduce the radiation and today a group project centered around sunflowers is brining hope to an area that is desperately in need of some.

In the aftermath of the disaster a local monk planted thousands of sunflowers in the fields and open areas surrounding the power plant and the affected town; now those sunflowers are beginning to sprout and blossom all across the city. Amazingly sunflowers are not only beautiful and able to lift the spirit of the local residents but they are also capable of actually removing much of the radiation from the ground.

Sunflowers apparently use cesium as a food source and after a major radioactive event much of the left over radiation is excess cesium. The sunflowers in Fukushima are in fact reducing the radioactivity levels in the city all while brining some joy to the town. Of course Fukushima is not the first place this trick has been used; the city of Chernobyl also had thousands of sunflowers planted immediately after the disaster in order to accomplish the same thing. Currently there are an estimated 200,000 sunflowers in Fukushima and more are expected to be sprouting throughout the year so residents are surely going to start feeling better about their situation soon

Source: Internet

Manage your Paper waste by Changing it as a Toilet Paper

By Basant

(NaturalNews) A Japanese company known as Oriental has invented a device that recycles office paper into toilet paper onsite.

“All the customers needs to do is put the shredded paper in, take the toilet paper out and supply the machine with water,” said Oriental’s technology manager, Kimihiro Nozawa.

The machine, dubbed White Goat, can turn 40 regular sheets of office paper into a roll of toilet paper in only 30 minutes. According to Oriental, the device removes all staples then shreds the paper, mixes it with water and turns it into pulp, flattens and dries the pulp, then converts into a toilet paper roll. Accounting of operating costs of the machine, it costs only 10 cents to produce a single roll.

The Telegraph notes that this is substantially cheaper than a typical roll of high-quality toilet paper, which retails for approximately 38 pence (59 cents). The quality of the White Goat’s toilet paper is probably closer to that of Tesco Value paper, which retails for 11 pence (17 cents a roll).

Yet while the machine may help offices save on toilet paper and offsite recycling costs, the up-front cost will still be daunting for many. The machine retails for $100,000, meaning that it would need to produce 200,000 rolls of toilet paper in order to pay for itself. This would require running continuously for at least 11 years. In addition, the machine is 6 feet tall and weighs 94 stone (1,300 pounds).

Nevertheless, the machine received a prize for innovation upon its unveiling at the 2009 Eco-products International Fair in Tokyo, and has attracted a fair amount of attention on the Internet.

“I can think of several people who’d like to flush their workload down the loo, but this takes it to another level,” said James Holland, editor of the web site Electricpig.

Sources for this story include: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics… ; http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/art….

Learn more: http://www.naturalnews.com/029205_toilet_paper_recycling.html#ixzz1fBIDmJxp

Some of My Bitter Experience when i was on Relationship

By Basant

Many people want to contact their ex after a breakup. It could be that they want to repair the relationship and give it another shot or perhaps just gain closure after the breakup. Regardless, you must understand that in order to communicate with your ex in a peaceful manner, there are some things that you must not do. Following are some of the things to know when contacting an ex.

The first 24 hours after a breakup happens is the most emotional 24 hours for both parties although it may be for different reasons. Due to this, it is not advisable for a person to start contacting an ex.

Now you might point out that one text message won’t do any harm, but there’s a chance that this would be followed by more messages. Even if your ex is the one who decide to talk with you, you must still ignore it. Why is this?
Because it’s possible that you say something you’d regret. The first two weeks after a breakup is still emotionally destabilizing.

At this point, your ex would be trying their best to heal and if you contact them, this would only make it harder for them to move on. It is better if you try to focus on yourself instead of pursuing your ex. Right now you are too emotional for the task and it would be better if you focus on yourself than get your ex back. If you need something from your ex, like some stuff you left in their place, and then ask a friend to get them with you.

Confrontations and communication with your ex should be avoided at all costs. If the two of you run in the same circles, then simply avoid social gatherings where the two of you might meet. It would only be awkward if the two of you happened to be in the same event.

Contacting an ex is only a good idea when both of you have gotten over the breakup. To be on the safe side though, it would be a good idea if you first contact your ex through email or maybe a text message.

You don’t want to pressure your ex into answering by calling them directly. A text message would allow them the choice of ignoring you or formulating a satisfactory reply. If you want to set up a meeting between the two of you then this is especially useful. Your ex can choose to reply to you according to their own schedule.

The top thing you need to remember when contacting your ex is not to push too hard. There’s a very high chance that they would ignore you or even go so far as to block you out. When this happens, simply try again in the future. If they don’t reply then don’t resort to flooding their inbox. This is not only petty but would make them annoyed. If they haven’t blocked you before, don’t be surprised if they do now.